Today’s tip on how to help an addicted loved one recover is the four C’s. In the rooms of recovery, we hear often that: We cannot control the addiction. We can’t cure the addiction. We did not cause the addiction. But family members often contribute to the addiction and the problem, when we recycle through our own negative behaviors, our codependency, and our shaming comments, which always perpetuate the problem. So just remember the four C’s as you seek to help your addicted loved one recover.